The Greatest Pain in Life

  The greatest pain in life
is not to die, but to be ignored.

To lose the person you love so
much to another who doesn't care at all.

To have someone you care so about so much throw a party...
and not tell you about it.

When your favorite person on earth
neglects to invite you to his graduation.

To have people think that you don't care.

The greatest pain in life,
is not to die,
but to be forgotten.

To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.

To never get a call from a friend,
just saying "hi".

When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.

For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.

When it seems like the only person who cares about you,
is you.

Life is full of pain,
but does it ever get better?

Will people ever care about each other,
and make time for those who are in need?

Each of us has a part to play
in this great show we call life.

Each of us has a duty to mankind
to tell our friends we love them.

If you do not care about your friends
you will not be punished.

You will simply be ignored...
forgotten...
as you have done to others.

 

Taurus: Stick with the plan, yet be open to modifications along the way.**


Quote of e day: "fang shou, bu shi cheng ren zhi ji shi bai. fang shou, zhi shi gei zhi ji ji hui zhao yi ge gen mei hao de lu zou".

suppose to start on my DCNK project now, which is due later at 8.30am, but i m concentrating on something else. (ya n i still have prob with my IISO. wth do i do 4 logistics?!!)

listening to 93.3fm 'er san ling ling(2300) ji mo you ren pei' de i.o.i.o. todays topic is: 'chi hui tou cao'. 'hao ma bu chi hui tou cao ma?'

some ppl called in to share their stories n so far those 'chi hui tou cao' de mei yuo hao jie guo. like Ling Zhi said: "if e prob(cause of e break) is not solved, even if u patch back, it wun last long because e prob is still there." strongly agree. well, how true do u think tt is?

'chi hui tou cao' ppl r those who hope for another chance n tt things would get better, or 'fang bu xia de ren'. 'bu chi hui tou cao' ppl r those who r afraid of getting hurt again. like wat they always say: "Once bitten, twice shy."

nvm if it's juz about giving another chance, wat about e 2nd? or even 3rd? e tot of having to patch n mayb break again, makes me sian only. think it would b damn tiring. n e kind of trust u had in tt person will no longer b there. in other words, no security.

n will you b with some1 who is constantly beside u, but is thinking of another person? i cant take tt. i would rather give it up.

wat is "Love" anyway? can any1 actually explain it? i doubt so. not even me. some ppl keep using this phrase, "i love u". but is it because u "Love" each other, tt u 2 r together or is it only 'yi lai'? we r looking 4 company? hmm.. 'yi lai'=u need tt person to share ur tots,feelings n stuffs=Love? coz they always ask who is e first person u think of when u wanna share ur happiness or problems with, then tt is e 1. ya.. like watever 4 do we care rite? life is short so wth, juz Love la! 'gan ai gan hen'.

but i guess tts wat love is all about, n how it comes about. it all starts with pure friendship, tt u 2 realise u need each other n decide to stay together 4 gd.

so... is it better to b with some 1 tt likes u more than u like him/her or e other way round? i dun think it is ez to find both of e same equal "amt" because diff ppl diff expectations/requirements. some may think its "too much" or "suffocating", while others think tt e sacrifice made is too little. it will nv b equal. depends on e diff ppl's point of view. so.. tts y we guys n girls always think tt 'hao nu ren, hao nan ren' extinct le, even though there r so many ppl ard us. blame it on e diff characters tt we ppl have ba..which others may detest ...

so.. i choose no.1: better to b with some1 tt loves u more than u love him/her. coz 'ai yi ge ren hao nan' and 'bei ai shi xing fu, ai ren shi tong ku.'

i cant help being a pessimist/sadist. blame it on my childhood or watever things i can blame on, for this kind of character tt is already in me.

though vday is already over, i juz dun understand y e hell do we have such a special day for us to celebrate love with our e other half? or frens, for those who r single? is it necessary? is it tt we ONLY treat them extra special on this day?

they juz wanna 'xuan yao' to those single men n women out there la. with bouquets of roses blah...

mayb i m juz jealous coz i m single. most prob i would think differently n would b acting e same as them if i m attached. =P

still...... i dun mind being single at all, i still can b happy. loving it!

Li.di.ya turned back time on 12:00:00 AM.